It is only my opinion but after reading through your threads there are a few things that stand out to me.
One - Your wife seems at least slightly taken aback by your assertion that you want to save your marriage. This is GREAT and I think it is a very telling thing about your marriage in general. I think assertiveness is likely a major issue in other areas of your relationship as well...
Two - It is very definitely time for you to go dark. I mean pitch black I-have-a-life-and-I-am-going-to-live-it-happily-whether-you-want-to-come-along-or-not.
Three - It is one thing to be respectful of your wife's apparent decision to divorce you but quite another to go through it showing only the sadness and the attempts to "move on".
Alex, I don't see any fire at all.
Not in her MLC (which is a blessing for YOU!) and not in your DBing (It is your FAMILY that she has wrecked. Where is the righteous indignation?).
Now perhaps you are just mild mannered people and if so, that is fine - I am not talking "War Of The Roses" here - but where the heck is the PASSION???
