My W just mailed me a greeting card which had a photo of birds flying away, with this handwritten message--
"I know this process is hard -- I don't want to minimize how hard it is but I also know that we need to get through it -- that things will feel better when we are less in limbo and more proactive in planning the future. You know I love you and care about you -- please hang in there and get through this with me. Love, [W]"
Feels like being escorted to an execution. She's talking about divorce mediation, of course.