Yes. Ouch. been there done that. Had the hole in my heart. It heals.
When I said something about setting up a reconciliation, I didn't mean it to sound like it was going to happen any time soon. She obviously needs to be on her owwn. Who knows what she is thinking. But if she is ever to return, the best thing to do is let her go. If she is making statements like she won't go back or work out any issues, means she knows she has issues. And at 47 years old, any change will take quite some time if she is so inclined.
Go live the best life you can. One never knows what the future holds.
