Hope after I love you but im not in love with you?

[BeingMe]

IMHO, those are the dumbest words you can say to anyone. WTH!!! What is 'in love'. You either love, or you don't love. My H gets it now, and says he was stupid for saying those words. They're not in love with the OP, they're in lust, and it's all a fantasy.

Okay, now that I have cleared that up - NOT! Hahaha! There is always hope after those stupid words, because they are usually said in a time of absolute confusion and stupidity on the part of the WAS. My H returned to the M after saying those words, and more. I actually told him that there were times where I hated him for what he's putting us all through, but doesn't mean I really do - just a feeling at the time.

Anyway, don't focus on that, just work on yourself, and be at peace with who you are, no matter what stupid, dumb, choices your WAS makes. Good luck!