Hope after I love you but im not in love with you?

[Holly06]

HI there,
From what I have gathered from this forum and loads of counseling sessions, I have made up this fantasy about our chances. Notice I said fantasy because I do not want to give false hope.
About xx% of MLC end up working it out with an understanding, patient and willing spouse.
YY% want to come home but spouse is unwilling to consider this.
ZZ% never want to come home and move on to other relationship.
Now we get to determine the value of x y and z.
I think x=40
y=30
z=20-30

Many here will debate this. I will accept their values too. The simple truth is, we are guessing. It is a fantasy number.
The idea of DB is to be one of the x numbers.
Your chances of being an x number go up if you DB well.
By well I mean consistantly and with integrity.
Good luck interpreting the numbers. No one knows for sure.
Holly