It occurs to me today that I must have been in a dark mood yesterday in posting this....but I guess I'm at that point in my own sitch where this is competely appropriate. At some point, we all must take responsiblity for our actions or lack thereof. I'm at a point where I just don't know what to do....my W needs help, needs to find her way back to our M, but doesn't want to take any action to achieve that. In the meantime, I find myself trying to prop up the R and when I pull back even in the slightest, I'm berated for doing so. I understand the principles of detachment and not being in an R anymore than the other person is, but somehow I haven't been able to acheive that. Sure I have detached to a great degree and I typically don't let her moods (of which there are many) affect me, but I'm worn down from trying to understand what is right and what I need to do to find myself. I have GAL as much as I possibly can, but its hard when the other person doesn't pick up the slack where you leave off. I can't explain it, I just know that right now, my R is toxic to me and I must find a way to get back to myself.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
