I have been following your sitch for quite a while and believe me that I would not trust her at all at this point until she would have proven to me over time that I could trust her. She really sounds quite manipulative...
Not sure that pressuring her to copy you on emails to OM is the best tactic, but you know best and may be at the "breaking" point yourself and would like to either like to move one way or the other... No?
Wishing you luck and patience.
My sitch
Me 35
WAW 34
Married 4 years
NO kids
BOMB July 21 2006
