Back together and piecing

[cat03]

I'm emotionally not able anymore to let her have an A and be loving, supportive, and happy FOR her.

Of course you belong here, you are standing your ground, we all deal w/this sitchs differently, me, I'd feel the same way you are feeling right now, I would also expect my H to drop the A and wouldn't feel right until he did.
OK, so many people here choose to work lovingly w/their Ss during an A, it would be very difficult for me, I highly admire my fellow DBers who suffer through such situations.

I pray that she means what she says, there is a limit for everything and it seems she's reach your limit.

Sorry to hear abuot ss15, poor boy, she seems as confused as him, hope she gets her bearings and realizes she could have a great M w/you. Hang in there, glad to hear from you.