Quote: Like Om. W seems to chose losers. Does that make me one too? No, I'm better than that. I guess once she made the wrong choice
I think you are a FIXER. She needed someone like that, and you needed someone like her. Now you both need to throw off those old clothes because they no longer serve you in yor adulthood.
My W was similar. She picked loser due to low self esteem. She found me but was feeling undeserving of such a great person.
I got tired of being a fixer. WHen I need 'fixing' she could not be there for me.
