Quote: Nothing personal, but I don't like to be told I SHOULD have done things in the past. I believe I did, just not very successful.
You know what Evolving, I am with you on this one. I think the people on here should cut you a little slack and even perhaps appologize for some of their harsh words. I am sure that they are trying to help, but are perhaps in fact making matters worse...
Even though I don't have children, I was quite the pest myself even with having pretty good guidance and rules set out by BOTH my parents. I was a rebel and could only imagine how I would have turned out if my parents had not MADE me respect them during my younger years. You sound like a nice decent human being, your W on the other hand, i am not sure about her.
I am not sure what advice I would give you at all... I just feel for your sitch very much and wish you the courage and strength to get through it.
Would you kindly tell me why you married this woman? (Don't mean to be an a**, she just sounds really fu**ed up in the head...
My sitch
Me 35
WAW 34
Married 4 years
NO kids
BOMB July 21 2006