I did read your thread but have totally forgotten what happened about during the time you linked. I just reread your postings from 03/08 (Frank in pieces). Wow, I can certainly relate to the way you felt then. When my W told me she wants to work on it, go to counseling, move back together, she was also reaching for me. I was gone for her at that time. Now SHE is gone again.
Over the weekend I felt like throwing in the towel, move out, desperate like when she dropped the bomb. W/o my D5 I probably would have given up. I will take your advise and make myself less available.
Could you see a certain point where your W turned back towards you or did that happen gradually?
