I think you said it all on your previous post when you wrote: "I did and am still doing my best. If it isn't enough ....."
Your situation is at the top of my thoughts today. I only wish you guys could find a decent marriage counsellor who wants to work with both of you and is pro-active and supportive of marriage. It seems like most of them out there don't know what the hell they are doing. I hope this week goes better for you. Continue to keep us in the loop.