Our MC didn't really help. He just didn't understand that W wouldn't want to give up Om. So we stopped seeing him. We both are in IC, which is probably better for W, even if it doesn't help the M.
The funny thing is that W told me today she feels betrayed by Om. He didn't tell her how sick he really is and that the plans they had together would never be realized.
So now she is coping with that and told me that's why she is on the internet so often to help her. The problem I'm seeing here is that was exactly the sitch when she met Om. So I feel like W is heading towards a Om2. She seems to be IMing with a certain person quite a lot. And this time the person lives just a couple miles away. And I told her so. I also told her that would be the dealbreaker for me. I'm not going through that again.
I will support W in whatever she wants to do, but NOT another A. Let's just see what the future will bring for me. I did and am still doing my best. If it isn't enough .....
W said she is tonight w/friends from work. Actually a female friend, but her husband is home too. He cooks dinner for them. I'm wondering how she talks about me? Babysitter, stupid husband, or does she even mention she is M?
I don't think W considers herself M. So why did she 'want to work on it'?
