Hi EM - Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I've been pretty busy trying to arrange for a condo purchase and all of the related details. Sorry to hear that your W still appears hung up on the OM and is so restless. The MLC is still playing itself out. Her A with OM did not begin overnight and I am sure it will not end that way either, although I am certain it will end at some point. I know from reading your posts how difficult this is for you. Your W acts close to you, then complains, then contacts the OM on the sly. Her MLC journey (meandering) continues. The only thing I can advise is continued patience and understanding, in spite of the circumstances you find yourself in. Do you feel your MC is truly trying to help you guys piece things together? Is the MC trying to help your W understand that the root of her problem is not you or other external circumstances, but that it originates within herself?


John S.