Back together and piecing

[cat03]

just realized how anti-DB my post was, how people here work their butts' off with spouses fully aware that they have OP. I guess it is still my anger talking, sorry about that.

I still think some boundaries are in order, don't know how or what, but I can't help but feel she is cake eating. I don't have many doubts that if OP would've given my H a second chance after he moved back he would've gotten back w/her. So I gues your W still has to purge the OM out of her system (guess in my case it was the flowers episode).

Maybe it's pity that makes her keep in touch, maybe she thinks it would awful to discontinue contact since he is so sick.

I dont' think I was of much help now I think about it, but I'll be here if you want to vent, heaven knows I come here to rant and then feel much better about it.