that's a tough one. At the beginning I didnt think I'd want to be affectionate to my H, i was hopping mad. But I just can't stop myself, and alredy have reached out to him... and I feel a tiny sliver of love back from him.
If I were you I'd give as much as I'm confortable with giving. Give and take.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.