Thanks for your post. I'm very sorry to hear about your discovery.
Update and a question....
I had a couple of days to thing about my sitch. Om is sick, W is caring, can't let go, but it is long distance EA right now.
W asked me a while ago to stay w/her while she figures out what she wants. And she asked me not to take the affection away like I used to when I was upset w/her. I decided to stay and see what develops.
My question is, do I be affectionate like she wants me to be or go back to the basics and let her persue ME which she obviously doesn't want. How do I get this together, DB and her request. And I want to be affectionate w/her. Any ideas?
