Thanks Rok for your post. You have a point there. Perhaps it is time to go back to the basics again.
Journalling
Last Thursday I saw on our phone bill that W called Om at least 6 times in two days. And those were two days where we had a lot of fun and sx together. So I asked her if she thinks about Om when we ML. She says no, gave lame excuse for the calls.... The next day she sends an email w/apology.
We wanted to have a nice weekend together, but somehow this discussion made it pretty uncomfortable.
We have another MC session today. I don't know if I should continue w/them. When we started MC I told W that every book I read and every C I talked to stated that MC doesn't work when there is a third person involved. She agreed and said her C said so too. On our first session W said A is over. But with the stuff that happened over the last 3 weeks it is clearly not. So why continue with MC?
Perhaps I'm getting impatient. But it is now 10 weeks that W said she 'wanted to work on it'. I guess I still don't know what she meant w/that statement. And nothing really has changed.
W is still sitting on the fence. How do I get her off there? Any suggestions?
And does anybody see a reason for continuing MC w/Om still in picture, even if PA went to EA?
