IMHO your wife is making a case why you shouldn't be with her. Could it be that she's wanting you to make the decision because she's too confused to make it? I'm glad to hear that you two are in MC. Can you focus in your sessions about how to rebuild the M rather than talk about "her" and what she wants? Can you both talk about what "we" want? It sounds like to me that your W maybe in a MLC. I haven't read your sitch, but I wanted to interject a few questions about the counseling sessions.
