Welcome to Piecing, EM!!!! Now the real work begins, for you and W! I am sure you feel a little anti-climatic about being back together now, not so? It's how I felt, and still feel sometimes.

Try keeping yourself detached, don't expect too much from her, try not to have any arguments (on the other hand, your W shouldn't expect you to walk on eggshells either, and throw the 'this isn't going to work' everytime things don't go her way), and keep working on yourself (GAL). Have you tried MC? Might be worth a try, so that you can both verbalize any issues that may be bothering you, or getting some clarity on where you both stand, in a neutral environment, in front of someone who is trained to deal with these issues.

Anyway, good luck!


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim