Hi,

I finally decided to move here from Newcomers.

Old thread:

Need advice and opinions-part 3

Short recap of my sitch:
Me 42
W 37
M 8 years
StepS 15
D 5
Bomb 2/19/06 (Discovered PA w/Om, ILY but I can't live w/you)
I moved out 2/23/06
End of May: W told me she wants to work it out.
Moved back together into new house 7/15/06

So far everything is as expected. I'm happy b/c I have my W and my D5 around. W is stressed b/c of new job, moving, and she finally realized what happened, in the process of selling our home. She admitted that she played a big role in having to sell our house.

We already had a couple of arguments, W stating 'this is not going to work' which scared the hell out of me. But then ok again the next day. I have some major trust issues. A couple of nights W stayed up late, back on the internet, ignoring me. Same behavior as when she met Om. I was very unhappy about it and mentioned it to her the second time. She might have understood.

Since I don't want her to know about this BB I can't post from home so my time here is very limited.

Anyway, this morning I just couldn't stand it, she was rather distant lately, perhaps b/c her 6 month anniv. w/meeting Om is coming up Friday. So I took her hands, looked at her and said ILY. She gave me a big hug and replied ILY too.

Life is good.

EvolvingMe