What an interesting life… I have come full circle to being done with my “Wife” at least done with the person she is now…
I have come to the conclusion she is more frightened of loosing her new “BF” of 3 months then her Husband of 12 years and her Kids…
She has spent lots of time with him over the summer by “Dumping” our kids at her moms place so she can go have new adventures with the new man.
NOTE: The kids enjoy the time with Grandma but give me a break… are you a MOM or a single women… you can’t have it both ways…
When I got back home from my travels this weekend… I went through my house and took down anything she has given me anything that was part of our old life together… and put it away into the furnace room downstairs… I wonder if she will bother to come in when she drops the kids off and notice.
I got my New Tattoo on Sat. and it turned out SO good I booked my other one for my other arm. My daughter requested she get to come see me get it done… it was on a day the my “EX” has the kids so I asked if she could come..
My “EX” saw my Tattoo and was excited for me to show it to her I did reluctantly
She was excited for me and said it was great and they did a nice job…
I told yes 2 of my friends who love me drew it out for me…
My “EX” asked if I would take the kids for one extra day so she could go see her “BF”
My reply “HELL NO spend time with your kids dammit! I’m not going to make it easy for you”
Fine I will just take them to my Moms then…
Good just keep dumping them… I guess the will know where they rank soon enough…
She replied…I feel guilty like my balance is off like I’m spending to much time on my “BF”
I replied you should feel guilty because you are doing exactly that
She got mad and went to leave… I didn’t care… I replied well what do you think dumping them at your moms is OK
You don’t want me to have them all the time except foe every other weekend…
She replies I know when school is back in things will change… I wont be able to make trips down…
I replied “Yeah and will stress out your relationship with the new man won’t it”
She says “He knows… he said he would make more trips up to see me”
I so wanted to say this “ Oh GREAT that’s wonderful for our kids more Sleepovers with moms new “BF” still good to see what your focus is…
But I said this instead
“In My life the KIDS COME FIRST… anyone who would get in the way of that … they are DONE…”
Her reply ”he doesn’t get in the way…”
NOTE: Yeah sure he doesn’t…
I wished her a nice trip with her NEW BF and told her I was happy that she could find something so special with a new man that in 12 years she never found in me
NOTE: I know that’s anti DB but I’m sick of her crap…
She texted me this morning saying Daughter wont come to Tattoo because “They” as in all 3 of them will be at the in-laws doing something that day
If she wants a different friendlier relationship with me she can make the effort to be different…
I have done so much and changes so much and worked so hard if she wants me as a friend and wants her kids to be happy she can figure out how to make things be different between us.
Tomorrow night my Tattoo buddy should come into town so we can go shopping (I need a new suit and she needs a new dress for one of my best buds weddings we going together to.
Next Friday I’m planning on having a BBQ… kind of a housewarming party I never had good food and lots of friends.
I’m going to move on with my life… enjoy myself, make sure my kids have ONE good parent
If my “EX” wants something from me she can do the work to earn it.
