I agree with Adwin, although I know it is easier said then done. First off, you should not know the details of her "other R." That can only be self defeating. I would stop her the next time she wants to "share" with you about him. I suspect she is curious of your response. She probably wants to make sure you are still interested so she can have her cake and eat it too. Have you read, "love must be tough?" I think that would be a good book for you.
We all like the thrill of the chase, so by you NOT playing hard to get/I have a life with out you.....is not helping your cause. Be the person she fell in love with years ago. What qualities/attributes did she find attractive in you then?
