roktop, what are you thinking of doing. please do not send that letter. it will not solve anything. i think it will probaly back fire on you and lose everything you worked for. she is thinking about you and your changes, continue to let her see your possitive changes, if you do this it will be a very neg. towards you sitch. she asked to you not contact him, and you said you wouldnt, you gave her your word, keep it. let her figure this out on her own. you have alot more going for you, your close, you have children with her, you have time with her, he has nothing, long distance, a few months of dating. keep up the good work and dont blow it by sending this letter.
