Not much too it, Just an observation that the HD ladies here seem to desire a man who is aggressive sexually speaking. I've seen it too in MrsGGB recently in that she responds when I am aggressive with her. It seems to me that an abuser is displaying a similar sexual aggressiveness but somehow can't control the aggression to direct it to the proper person with the proper intensity. What one woman may crave another may call abuse (and rightly so). That's all I meant.
I might add, that being sexually aggressive with MrsGGB does not come naturally, so it is taking some getting used to, and at times feels almost over the line (biting, hair pulling type things).