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When an HD partner says that their LD partner has all the power and control over the sex life... how is that a dominion (power) play on the part of the HD?





IMO it's a power play along the lines of one kid saying to another "You've got all the red jelly beans. That's not fair." while failing to acknowledge that they've got all the green jelly beans. Though I would say that most of the HD folk on this BB really have no consciousness of any green jelly beans and it's only natural to want some red jelly beans too.


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