Quote: This begs the question of why men stay involved with a woman who doesn't readily submit? Is it a question of compassion? Is it a question of proving virility?
Cine you have have just reworded Cemar, HD, and Lifers comments on the other thread. So to flip it back....
Why do women stay with men they are unwilling to surrender too?
Why do they deny this innate desire? Why does it have to be so hard .... and persistant?
I hear females discuss these shortcomings of their SO, to their female friends...in female code of course. They nod and commiserate. But they never admit it directly.
Why did her perspective change from the beginning of the R. He was good enough, even more desireable then, and probably in his mind and reality, had a lot less of the trappings of success and security.
Why isnt she appreciative of the good?
The specifics may be different, but the reason is going to be the same. Fear of the unknown. Pain of loss is greater the the unknown gain. For a few... the knowledge that staying and working it out together is the healthier, saner, even more secure thing to do... long term.
What difference does it make why they stay..on either account. Lets say its because they said vows. OK. Why arent they doing what works then?
those questions....were rhetorical..... and presumptous of me, on what other guys are thinking. Hopefully they will chime in.
