For instance, take a look at Chrome (sorry to use you as an example Chrome, hope you don’t mind). He twice was lured by the pull of an EA. This need does not come from his relationship dynamics, but from his FOO.
I this is a complete generalization and although you may be right on target with Chrome (only he can say for sure) I disagree that this is true enough to generalize it the way you have.
What about people who are married for years and years before they ever even contemplated an A of any kind? Was their FOO simply repressed during those other years and then all of a sudden it surfaces? I find that very unlikely. A R that becomes empty for someone is enough of a push for an A without having to dig all that much deeper in most cases.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
