Cobra I do agree that the FOO issues will need to be addressed....I think you need to be careful though that YOU don't push too hard for it (which I think you run the risk of). FOO issues won't be dealt with by you prodding and analyzing her....they have to be dealt with by her, as she realizes they need to be dealt with.
I do believe though if you concentrate on the m/f dynamics...that she just might eventually have her own "AH HA!" moment...just like Corrie did.
