Quote: Seriously. Open invite. I need all help I can get, so... I'm asking.
Okay, you asked. What I've noticed is the complete absence of information about what your ex is up to. Maybe it is due to the fact that you are super-differentiated but every other recently divorced person I've ever known has been semi-obsessed with their ex's behavior/situation and you haven't said a word about it. Perhaps, I am way out of the ballpark (since I am not psychic like NOP) but I get the feeling that you are starting to date even though maybe you aren't really feeling ready for that yet and when I ask myself why you would do that one answer I come up with is that maybe you are dating because your ex is already involved with somebody else. Of course that would be really fused behavior and therefore may be more a reflection of my limited POV based on the dysfunctional set of divorced folk I know in real life.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
