How does she respond when you tell her how pissed of you are with her sleeping arrangements? I'm sure it makes you feel good but is it helping your sitch? Will it push her farther away? I know you feel like you've been a doormat and let her think you don't care but see if there are other ways of showing you care, might be more fruitful. I'd also be careful of falling into the idea that you can convince her that she is wrong. When she says you aren't compatible its natural to want to convince her she is wrong. But, that does not validate her it says "You are wrong again". There are ways of saying that you recognize what she is saying whether you agree or not. "Wow, it must be hard being here and feeling that way about us"... whatever. Listing all the reasons she is wrong doesn't work. I've been there, done that! Just my thoughts for today. I'd like to validate you right now but I got to run (just like a man, isn't it ) Keep at it, guy this game is far from over!
) Keep at it, guy this game is far from over! 
