Yeah...my W didn't ask for permission, she just tells me she's "going out". She knows it bothers me very much, and I'm not very socialable when it happens. But...the fact that we are overseas complicates matters. Honestly, if we were in the States, she would probably have moved out by now...and I'm not so sure that would be a bad thing. That's just not really a viable option here. Well...what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger...isn't that the way the saying goes?