Sometimes those little digs are just too good to let pass, aren't they! Enjoy the concert, you deserve it! I sometimes think about you poor guys whose S's are sleeping over at the OP's regularly. Wow, that would be difficult to deal with. My W doesn't do that. Once she asked for permission and I said "I can't give you permission, you do what you want but I can't give permission" She went once ("we don't do anything!) and never again. I can sure understand your angst about beating the crap out of the OM. But, I guess we all have to realize that the OP is not to blame here. It was our S's who decided to forsake their M vows and start another R. It's hard sometimes for us to see that and kind of easier to blame the OP. Keep well.