She's doing some thinking. That is great to hear. She's not able to just shut down and truck on. Just keep trying to be the best friend you can be here. That can be hard sometimes. I know sometimes I think "I don't give a damn how you think or feel", that's what hurt and pain does to us. But we can only try to do our best. If that's not enough, it's not enough.
That quote from the OM is priceless. Who is your W dating, George Bush? You should enter it on the "Stupidest things said..." thread even though it wasn't said by your S (actually upon review it was said by your W, so it's a perfect fit!), it sure rates an entry! Keep me posted.
