Just got back from vacation! One week away with the w and kids. I would love to hear more about what was in your letter to her. I know myself I am very proud of what I wrote to my W months ago. No matter what now whatever you wrote will be in her head, she can throw it out, ignore it etc but it will be there. You also threw her when you told her your letter was not the anger that she was hoping for (anger means she can ignore it, and shut it out) and now she has to cope with hearing what comes from your heart. That is alot harder to put aside. I hope she, like my W, cries her heart out when she reads it. Let me know the outcome. P.S. don't go giving the MP's a hard time by offing the OM. Too much paperwork! I used to be an MP many moons ago!