Hi IMINTROUBLE, I'm new here and I have been reading your situation. I'm sorry that you are going through this and I wish you the best. But may I say here that it probably would be best if you did not discuss the R with your IL's. I have been talking to mine (nothing bad about my H except that he needs their help right now) and now he believes that his family has turned against him BECAUSE of me. He does not think that what he is doing (living w/my "friend") is wrong - neither of them do. So please be careful about how much you tell your IL's. Just my thoughts.
