That's usually an easy question to answer. Think about the last time you had a family member or friend who didn't agree with what you were doing. They kept trying to get you to change your stance. Did you feel like spending time or being close to them?

W has to figure this out for herself. Anything that you do to the contrary is going to make her back off. Nobody likes to be told that they are wrong, even if they really are wrong. I wouldn't have the family come down on her if I was you.

"Our life is what our thoughts make it." Marcus Aurelius