Cemar wrote "the LD female must be FULLY committed to fixing the problem before it can get better."

It does bring up something that does make me feel better when struggling with sexual issues in my own relationship and that is when I see the efforts of my wife to do something about it. Sometimes that something is being willing to be sexual when she does not desire it.

A commitment to managing the differences that does exist while maybe not as sexy as having her decide to do me every night for 2 months seems a lot more realistic place to start from.