Quote: When 2 people get married, why would it be acceptable for only 1 person in that relationship to be desired? Why would anyone actually want to be with another person that does not desire them. Why are you telling us guys that our being desired is not important?
CeMar, CeMar, CeMar- Let's suppose that sometime in the future you truly believe that you are desirable and lovable and that your own desire for sex is a good thing and your own demands regarding sexual activity are reasonable. Then you will be able to see that your wife's lack of desire for sex is her own "thing". Then you can either be helpful if she perceives her own lack of desire as a problem or accepting if she is accepting of her own lack of desire and doesn't see it as a problem.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
