What you just said is an argument I have presented to CeMar several times in the past, I happen to agree with you. IMPO if a woman who is LD will ML with her spouse or BF even when no desire is present, it is absolutely an expression of love....no doubt about that in my mind. To me that is flat-out showing the person who is important in her life that she is trying to meet his needs, simply because she does love him.
My comments are directed solely at CeMar on the perspective he's presenting currently....primarily because he is now advising someone to do something he's not willing to accept from his own wife and a display of love himself.
