I know the book is directed specifically to LD women...what it doesn't account for however, are the different type of men out there. I'm not commenting about whether or not the LD needs to commit...what I comment about is the fact that you expect someone to commit to having sex.....yet YOU have stated time and again that just going through the motions without "desire" wouldn't cut it for you. For an LD woman to commit to having sex on a regular basis CeMar, she WILL be merely going through the motions and checking things off her list of things to do.
THAT was my point. You have stated several times that this would still be unsatisfactory to you. You want DESIRE, like many of us do. However, until other issues within the M are resolved, a woman's desire is simply not likely to be there....period.
