Conversely, the team found a man's libido remained the same regardless of how long he had been in a relationship. Assuming the primary equipment works. You know, the thoughts, slight erection or that tingly feeling, more thoughts more erection, more "interest chain" you wrote about.
Too bad bf's secondary equipment (hands, fingers, etc)is not being put into use. That takes more empathy (in a particular area) and has to overcome some strongly rooted mental aversions some people might have. Sorry {{{{{Lil}}}}}.
The degree of pleasure the woman seemed to be experiencing got me thinking "why wouldn't a man want to please his woman like that, for her benefit." Was she acting or was she really that caught up into the activity? I hope the woman's facial expressions and body language was real desire, and not acting. Would the Sinclair Institute encourage that?
Anyway Lil, hands only. I know you said bf has an oral and ?? ick factor. The video clip made me think of what men with ED are missing and how some of their wife's life could be enhanced.
I was thinking the Sinclair video would have been something to introduce when you went to the Undefended Love workshop. 20/20 hindsight? Yes. I think your bf has it in him but he can't, won't, doesn't know how to let it out.
In the mean time he sounds like a gem in so mant other ways.
HD. I read the article. Makes sense to a degree but does not explain Ms. HD.