You need to read "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" . Men are terribly simple and women don't understand this because women are complicated and can't believe that men are as simple as they are. Basically, what the book explains is that by providing TONS of great sex and admiration (they go hand in hand), you will become the women that he would do ANYTHING for. Once you have got him on the hook with sex, you can literally get him to do ANYTHING, you can lead him ANYWHERE in a relationship, you can get whatever you want from your relationship. I agree 100% with here book, I am exactly the way she describes men. The hard part is that you are going to have to be sexual WAY beyond your comfort level. She recommends that for 2 months, you have sex EVERYDAY and then do something else physical like kissing everyday as well. Do that, and likely you will have him eating out of your hand. For a sexy woman like that, I know I would move heaven and earth to keep her happy.