wow, Lou, cool site! I am bookmarking that. And I like the questionarres... I'd love to know so much of that info about my wife, but since "the past is in the past and there is nothing we can do about it" is her sttitude, she doesn't appreciate my delving into that past. But still, I may have to try some of these.. Heck if she wants me to communicate with her more, she's gotta open herself up too!