by the way Lou... Sorry about your situation, I do hope you find some help and peace
Thanks wiccangirl41172.

On another site there are questionnaires you print out, fill out, and show your spouse. Here is a link> Marriage Builders® Forms and Questionnaires<

One important thing Marriage Builders endorses is all Marriages need 15 hours a week of couple time to avoid problems.

Here is a link to what they call the Basic Concepts . Read as much as you can. Some things are easy to see and do while other things more difficult to do or you might have a high need in that area.

Lou