Thank you all for your insite... Let's see: In the beginning we had sex all the time! Then slowly dwinlded.... Then after my first son, it really went down hill... Oh the thyroid thing I have been checked for .. Its ok.
Its not that I don't want him, its I guess maybe the timing.. No time and by the time he gets home its 10pm and Im done for the day.
We own our own business and I quit my regular job 2 years ago to be with the kids. I do a lot for the business now, and have someone coming here to help me with the housekeeping etc.
My body.. well it doesn't look like it used to after two kids.. I still have about 10 lbs to lose at least. Im at 126 right now.. 5'2.. He is not turned off by me at all.. but I'm not that happy with the way I look.. I think part of my problem is that I need more of an emotional connection with him.. I don't feel I have that he wants me but that he doesn't really genuinely "care" about me. (sp?) I do get depressed sometimes.. Im alone a lot and that doesn't help a lot. I understand he has to work, Im ok with that.. but He's always on over drive and all his free time he wants with the kids.. We is completely understandable... but then there is no time for us.
I don't know.. it worries me.
Traci... by the way Lou... Sorry about your situation, I do hope you find some help and peace and I do think talking to all of you will help, male or female..
