wic:

I have a few questions.

Describe for me what sex was like 'in the beginning.' How did you feel about it? What did he do that you liked? How did you act/respond to him during this time? How is sex different now than 'in the beginning?'

Are you a stay-at-home mom, or do you work outside the home?

You say your H works a lot. Do you want him around the house more? If you did have him there more in the evenings... what would you do with him?

How's your self-esteem? Do you like your body? Do you like/enjoy your H's body? What do you enjoy doing to him?

Uhm... okay... we'll start there.

Corri