WG, Obviously you and your H have somewhat different sex drives. That cetainly is nothing unusual. His desire for experimentation between the 2 of you is nothing wrong or bad unless it hurts. There is no doubt he can want you as much as he does and you could accept that as a high compliment. Getting involved in the porn is a different matter in my opinion. I dont want to appear prudish but that is something that can become a problematic addiction. I wont propose to tell you how to handle it because there is a tremendous range of acceptance regarding that depending on the individuals involved. If you are uncomfortable with I would let him know that. If you dont it will just fester in you and too much of that is why most of us end up here. So I would deal with it however you see fit. But dont hate it and try to pretend you dont. There are many books and techniques that can be utilized to bring you two a little closer together physically. Middle ground is definately reachable. Dont ignore his desires though or hope they will just go away. These things need to be dealt with or they very well may lead to a real problem. Youre on the right track addressing it.
