Greeneyedlass... thank you.. well to answer your questions, my h has his own business and works crazy hours. I have a 3 year old and a 8 month old. I'm alone a lot. I also do a lot of work for the business. He hired a cleaning lady for me to take the stress off, but we don't get to spend anytime alone ... especially during the summer months when he is the most busy. I have suggested going out alone, but its really hard for us to get a sitter. All of our free time is spent with the kids, think he feels guilty he isn't home enough, he is a good father. I know he loves his kids so much. Its mostly the sex thing that has got us at odds. Sometimes I feel he tells me things just to get me to have sex with him, but he really doesn't mean them. ..I don't know..
