Wiccangirl...to put it bluntly and to answer your question. Yes, a man can want a woman that much and it's completely normal.
I think something that you may not be thinking off too, is that it's not just about sex, it's about an emotional connection with you. All too often people confuse the desire for sex as merely a want to have a physical release...so they feel like a piece of meat, like their body is just being used.
Wiccan, it's so much more than that. Men crave that emotional connection that comes with being itimate with their partner just as women crave an itimate connection in other ways...some women want physical touch to feel intimate, some want other things like quality time, gifts, of compliments etc.
I want to assure you though that what you are experiencing with your H is completely normal. I understand being tired believe me (I have a 3yr old at home) and everything that comes with a busy life. Can I ask you though, do you make time to spend with your H? One on one...no distractions, just "you time"? I can only imagine that with the stresses a busy life today brings...that your mind often gets cluttered with everything you haven't yet finished, or the things you have to do tomorrow. So...do you put your H and your M as a priority?
Just some things to think about. Oh and far as "kink" goes...the way you put it makes me think...it's not really anything kinky, just something different for you. Remember whatever the two of you choose to do...is between you...and therefore perfectly acceptable behavior.
